"You have to give up,your ideas about the world,You have to give your opinions about the world and who you are"
Sometimes life needs to force you into a corner. It needs to knock you down so hard so that you begin to reassess your skills. As humans, we are somehow programmed with a map or a vague algorithm of what life is. But 7 times out of 10, the so-called strong people cant fight themselves outside of a paper bag." Everyone has a plan until life punches them in the mouth". For your full capabilities to be unleashed, you have to be pressed into a corner and feel like your life is burning, because trust me, when you are about to break the sound barrier, that's when the cockpit shakes the most. That is when the real you need to be present.
Everyone has problems, but due to the fear of failure or fear of inability, we can not admit, not just to people, but to ourselves. The earlier we can accept, the quicker you can find the solution. For example, if you have depression, but are in denial, you'll repeat the same routine and lead yourself into more devastation. It also gets worse when you spend the majority of your life worrying and focusing on your problems, when you could have just looked at it, you would have found out that you have just one problem and tons of solutions, whereas you are worried about a single issue. Stop beating yourself up and complaining about your situation and find a solution, you don't like your job, get a side hustle, and work your way to the top. There's more to you than what meets the eye.